Stop Worrying About Your Goals. Start feeling truly confident.
Having perfect control never created lasting fulfillment, but being the leader you were meant to be will.
Let me show you how.
Playing President
10 weeks to playing at your full power!
Discover the Tantric Approach to Leadership, Where Pursuing Your Deepest Desires Demands Your Truth—Creating Remarkable Results While Becoming Fully Yourself
Develop advanced skills designed to elevate your confidence and power… Both in and out of the office.
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Master incredible tools
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Experience profound inner freedom and joy
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Transform yourself into the leader you want to be
Be the most powerful version of you, without sacrificing results or exhausting yourself.
Wake up in the morning, excited to get to work cos you’re really crushing it, without worrying how to get all the work done.
Work towards your ambitious goals, without feeling afraid your team members won’t like you when you say what you actually need from them.
Make a difference and be recognized for it, without spending all your time and energy at work.
Relax into your body without being always ON and in your head.
Many managers who dream of leading their team to success face one major obstacle that always keeps that dream just beyond their reach.
Which of these apply to you?
I’m always proving myself. I want to matter, be as important as the others. I’m always ON. If you’re feeling good, won’t you stop going?
I love what I do, but my body energy is low and I work way too long hours. Part of me wants to give up and take an easy job in a mature organization.
The need to present myself as strong, as a leader, never seems to end – there’s always one more bully or threat to my job I need to face before I can start to relax and be vulnerable.
I sometimes wonder if I am a leader. When I meet resistance, I get quiet, in conflict with myself. Am I right? I want to be liked, I can’t stand conflict, and constantly walk on eggshells. How do I stay in my power when I have to deal with external factors?
I try hard to live up to expectations, go on just a bit longer than is good for me, I try to be strong all the time. Doing a lot makes me feel good, but rest makes me feel I’m weak, failing. I’m in survival mode, I sometimes think of running away.
I feel like I have to live up to expectations, so I play nice. And it’s so frustrating that they just don’t get it. I feel I miss the tact and the tools to get through to them and take them along. I think “let’s build a house”, and they think “nails”, so frustrating!
After reading that, how much of it applies to you?
A survival mindset is what keeps you stuck.
Your VALUE is dependent on your EFFORT,
and as a result, “working harder” and “working longer” is your only strategy for hitting your targets, and you know by now that’s a broken strategy.
The survival mindset has you thinking about what is possible for you, and what a good manager does…
… and most people think in a way that sets them up to fail.
This puts hopeful managers (just like you) on the path to overwork, and still not getting done what you really want to get done.
And it causes a lot of frustration and wasted energy on the way.
It’s what keeps you working long hours.
And when you’re with your family, your mind is still at work…
And if it applies to you,
Don’t be ashamed! It’s not your fault!
If you’re like most struggling managers, then chances are you’re operating from this survival mindset that you learned from your upbringing.
That’s ok! It’s all you knew… UNTIL NOW!
So, if getting the results you want and having a great time doing it seems “unrealistic” or like ‘a silly dream’, it’s time to lose the survival mindset or stay stuck where you are.
What’s going to happen with you and your team
If you don’t start thinking like a thriving manager?
A struggling manager thinks very different from a thriving manager…
- Struggling managers think joy is frivolous,
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Thriving managers think it’s exciting and gets them the results they desire…
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- Struggling managers think they need to be right,
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Thriving managers know how to get it right…
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- Struggling managers are afraid of judgement and rejection,
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Thriving managers welcome it because they know it’s actually the key to success…
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- Struggling managers are constantly rushed and pressured,
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Thriving managers are in control knowing no matter what, they’re always one step closer to their goals…
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- Struggling managers find reasons why what they want is not possible,
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Thriving managers see opportunities everywhere…
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Thriving managers are visionaries.
They create the results and the life that they really want.
They are leaders who prioritize joy.
They don’t follow the rules. They question them. Then they break them.
They are here to make an impact and have a great time doing it.
They don’t let their circumstances dictate what’s possible for them.
When you take on the identity of a thriving manager, you’ll get totally clear on what you need to do to create the results you want and have a great time doing it.
You’ll be able to focus your time and energy on what’s important, and the results will come.
Creating these results will come more naturally and more playfully than you ever thought possible.
Once you take on the identity of a thriving manager, you’ll start thinking and acting like one.
And that is what I’m here to do; help you step into the identity of a thriving manager a lot quicker and easier than you ever could on your own!
And one of the way’s we’re going to do that…
You get clear on what you deeply desire, and what kind of leader you need to be to achieve that.
The truth is:
Desires are what light you up and give you the fulfillment you seek.
They also give you the courage to do what needs to be done.
How you achieve your desire is by becoming the leader that naturally creates the desired result.
You act from this identity.
But making that change on your own is HARDER THAN YOU THINK.
It seems like a pretty straightforward solution, doesn’t it?
Get out there, identify what it is you truly want, get clear on who you need to be to achieve that. And then you can stop working so darn hard and be exhausted all the time, right?
Unfortunately…NOT.
BECAUSE WHEN IT COMES TO HOW YOU THINK AND ACT, YOU CAN’T “LEARN” YOUR WAY TO DIFFERENT RESULTS.
It goes way deeper than what you THINK you know or don’t know.
Everyone “knows” how to lose weight. But how many people still struggle to see any results?
So what do they do? They “learn” more skills.
If the diet doesn’t work, they try another one.
When exercise seems not to help, they find a different routine.
It’s an endless journey of learning more, but the results don’t change.
The same thing happens with managers. Maybe you’ve been through it yourself.
You take a course to learn more about strategy, leadership, KPIs, processes, employee engagement, conflict management.
You know more, you have more skills, but nothing ends up different.
So here’s the question…
If you know what you’re supposed to do to get the results you want,
Why do you still struggle to get them?
The answer:
THE REAL BATTLE IS IN YOUR INNER WORLD.
It’s driven by what you don’t know that you don’t know. By the ideas and beliefs hiding inside you.
Those are what drive your thoughts, actions and results, regardless of what you know.
If you want to change the way you think and act, you need to discover those blocks that are keeping you stuck.
The problem is… they are hiding in dark places, and YOU have to bring them to the light.
Only when you shine your light on these blocks, can you choose a different -empowering- story, and take different actions and decisions. Only then can you experience new results.
That’s when you transform from a struggling manager to a thriving manager.
And I will help you make that transformation…
Tineke’s sessions and coaching can only be described as transformative!
I started with a wish, something I’d wanted to achieve my whole life but had never been able to. It felt like standing in front of a huge wall I couldn’t break through or climb over. I felt powerless, frustrated—like it would never happen. Honestly, I just couldn’t see a way.
That all changed during the sessions. I call them breakthrough sessions. I literally felt the wall I needed to conquer, and Tineke gave me an incredible sense of safety. She guided me through the obstacles, revealing things I’d never expected to see or feel.
She helps you get to your other side of the wall. Now, I feel stronger than ever. I enjoy life and the work I do. The powerlessness and frustration have transformed into knowing and deep trust.
What’s so powerful is that she doesn’t just guide you through different exercises—she also addresses your wish from all angles. She takes you to another world. I discovered my truth. Her sessions confirmed things I knew deep down but had always doubted. When doubts disappear, you stand firm in your knowing—and that’s so powerful.
It’s her method, her exercises, and Tineke as a coach. She’s an incredible woman who balances warmth and strength, unwavering trust in you, and exceptional leadership. Every time, at just the right moment, she brings clarity with her observations and insights. It’s almost “frightening” how spot-on she is.
For leaders ready to look beyond the surface, Tineke is the coach. Trust her. Look deeper. And you’ll discover the treasures within yourself. Just do it.
Playing President isn’t a coaching program
like all others you may have taken.
… It’s a complete transformational process
that will change you…
from an overworked manager with survival mindset
to the thriving manager your team needs!
- It’s a program that uses ancient wisdom and modern neuroscience to liberate you from conditioning and limiting beliefs.
- FROM hard work, pushing and exhaustion, pulling others along…
- TO inspired actions, creating the results you are excited to share with your family and friends! (who no longer resent you for neglecting them).
Let me show you what’s waiting for you inside PLAYING PRESIDENT:
10 Online 1-on-1 coaching sessions that completely transform how you see yourself, others, and what’s possible for you in this world!
In each session, we go on a journey where we face a specific kind of obstacle that holds you from being the leader you need to be to achieve your desire. We use powerful tools specifically created to transform your relationship with the obstacles, so you regain freedom of choice, and from there, you can do what you set out to do.
Session 1. Stepping into your desire
We’ll start with the basis – feeling excitement, possibility and focus.
Your results are a reflection of you. Of what you do, of what you choose, of what you believe. That means where you struggle, results struggle. And most managers’ struggles come directly from beliefs about what’s possible, from their survival mindset.
In session 1 you identify what you desire most, without being held back by “being realistic”.
Specifically, we’ll identify the inspiring vision behind your goals. This will light you up and have you on track immediately, so you are excited to get back in the game.
Inside you’ll discover
- The single most important thing managers need to make business easy and fun again!
- How to get aligned with your vision, so you can create incredible results.
- How to feel joy NOW (whatever joy looks like for you)
Once you have this new inner compass in place, we’ll move on to…
Session 2. Navigating through inner blocks
We all have little voices inside our heads that tell us to play small,
to live up to expectations of people around us.
In Session 2 you identify some parts in you that hold you back from achieving your desire, without you knowing it.
You learn how to start leading THEM instead, so you can focus on moving forward.
You uncover superpowers that were hidden inside of you, and activate these so you can take action steps toward your desire that are super-effective, and feel completely “you”.
Inside you’ll discover
- The single most important thing to do when you face inner blocks
- The real truth about what’s holding you back from your deepest desires
- The quickest way to achieve your goals playfully
After that, we’ll tackle…
Session 3. Embracing your flavor of leadership
As a manager, you support everybody around you.
But… Who supports you?!
Who takes a stand for what you believe in?
Who gives you permission to make a mistake, to have doubt or to not know what to do on a bad day?
We all have ideas how we ‘should’ lead.
In session 3, you get to use these stories to discover who you really are inside. From there, you will create new ways of leading, in alignment with your deepest truth.
Inside you’ll discover
- The simple strategy to feeling validated and supported instead of unsure or exhausted.
- The easiest way to lead yourself where you were stuck before.
- How to fully relax by getting out of your head and into your body.
After this module, you have a deep inner knowing that your desire has unconditional support and is possible for you.
From there we move on to …
Session 4 . Breaking through stubborn patterns
The inner child is a very dominant part of the personality for a lot of people. It is a collection of beliefs, wounds, and experiences from childhood. Inner child work is key to leadership because most people unconsciously run their work and private relationships through their inner child.
In this session, you will learn how experiences and beliefs of your inner child are unconsciously controlling your behavior and keeping you from achieving your desired result. You’ll discover how to free yourself from their control, and find new ways to work toward your desired goal.
Inside you’ll discover
- How you can work through stubborn patterns;
- The #1 way to create safety in your body
After this module you no longer have one foot on the brake and one foot on the gas. You’ll notice it being so much easier to work toward your desire.
Then it’s time for…
Session 5. Creating Joy NOW
My objective isn’t just to help you get by. I’m here to support you to thrive, for you to achieve all your goals and have a great time doing it. Objectively from the outside, most managers are safe, lovable, respectable. But what happens, is that people learn early on, that they can’t have certain needs met.
In this module, we’re going to find out what it is that you need to thrive, and how to build that for yourself. You’ll experience that you can actually create a thriving state yourself.
You can feel joy right now.
Inside you’ll discover:
- How you can create thriving all by yourself, so you can finally feel what it’s like to be unstoppable
- A breathwork process to nourish your body
Then we go to…
Session 6. Stepping into value and confidence
By achieving your desires, you figure out who you really are and what you truly came here to do. When people talk themselves out of what they desire, it shuts them down and reduces their sense of aliveness.
In session 6, you’ll identify a source of discomfort that inhibits you from achieving your desire, and we’ll use a powerful tantric tool to find your value and confidence there.
Inside you’ll discover
- How to feel deserving and worthy of your desire
- A breathwork practice to nourish your body
Next, we’ll dive into…
Session 7. Finding emotional empowerment
Emotions affect our entire life through daily choices and actions. We are programmed to avoid our uncomfortable emotions and any situation where those emotions might come up. Usually, what we desire is on the other side of that emotion.
The more that you can be with your emotions, the more you have the power of choice in your life.
In session 7, you will learn incredibly powerful tantric tools to use uncomfortable emotions to feel empowered and fully alive.
Inside you’ll discover
- The KEY to understanding what the emotion is here to tell you
- An amazing tool to transforming difficult emotions to incredible power
After this, you’ll never worry you can’t handle difficult emotions. Secretly, you might even look forward to some friction….
Next, we’ll dive into…
Session 8. Rewriting the story of what’s right for you
We’ve all received messages that who we are, what we want, what we need, or what we feel, is wrong, bad or not good enough. Some of these messages can stand in the way of us fully going for what we desire, fully believing it is possible or believing it’s even worthwhile.
In this session, you’ll choose what works for you; re-write stories that empower you to achieve your desired goals.
Inside you’ll discover
- How to deal with other people’s judgements, opinions and expectations so you can feel free to be who you want to be
- A proven formula for a big smile on your face no matter what others may think.
After that we turn to ….
Session 9. Expanding your power beyond what you think is available
When you work on your leadership, it is so important for you to know yourself, to be honest with yourself, and to be willing to go deep.
In this session, we dive into an inaccessible power that you would love to have access to. We’ll see what arises to be integrated.
Inside you’ll discover
- That you can be so much more than you thought was possible.
- Ancient tools to move through inner blocks without talking about them.
- How to be with strong resistance in yourself, and slowly digest it, so you can liberate yourself and experience a new level of inner freedom.
And finally we move on to…
Session 10. Gaining relationship clarity
Difficult conversations, conflict of interest, or unwanted behavior are part of the job that many managers do not enjoy.
In this session, you get clarity on what’s happening in the relationship, what’s possible, and what’s needed to get the desired results.
Inside you’ll discover
- An effective process to understand conflict and get clear on how you want to navigate it.
By the end of these 10 sessions,
You’ll have radically transformed who you are being and what you are doing. You’ll be ready to take on any challenge. You’ll have complete confidence that you’ll achieve your goals and have a great time doing it!
Most managers I work with have done a number of programs, courses and workshops to be a better manager or leader. They’ve had consultants to help them and their team get better results, better processes, and yet, they find themselves disappointed that nothing really changed.
What makes Playing President so transformative is:
- We don’t just talk about the blocks that keep you from your desired results. As the blocks are in the body, talking about them won’t do the trick. You need to feel it to heal it. You’ll learn powerful ways to do that.
- Every session opens a new portal. A new way of seeing the world. A new way of being. A new way to approach your desired results.
- We translate all that you learn in the sessions into how this applies to your everyday work. You learn how to identify powerful actions that feel right and create the results that you want.
- Accountability to keep the momentum. Every week you let me know how the specific actions played out, and I give you the feedback or guidance you ask for.
The 10 sessions of Playing President will enable you to achieve your goals and have a great time doing it.
Having said that, this program is definitely not for everyone.
This is for you if...
- You’re on the right path but it’s too hard.
- You still believe there must be a better way, an easier way, a more comfortable way to achieve your ambitious goals.
- You are committed to achieving results and to showing up as the powerhouse you’ll discover yourself to be.
- You want to discover what you are truly capable of.
- You (want to) believe in magic, in possibility.
This is NOT for you if...
- You want a quick fix and don’t want to stop making excuses for mediocre results.
- You believe joy is only important for people who don’t achieve much.
- You are not willing to find the courage to look in the mirror.
- You no longer want to believe that it’s possible to create win-win solutions, if you no longer want to imagine what it could be like to achieve your goals and have a great time doing it.
Tineke, I am so honoured to have shared the last few months in your presence. It has been a phenomenal experience to have been coached by you.
I have taken away so many insights into my core power and how I can use this to show up as a leader in not only my field but of my life as a whole.
You have given me valuable tools to start building a business that is fully aligned with my vision, as well as supporting me to really truly connect to my own sexuality. My inner diva is fully present.
As a coach yourself you are compassionate, curious and open to listening to all I have to say, you present yourself in a non-judgmental way which allows for me to feel safe to open up and try new techniques and fully drop into new experiences.
I have no doubt that I am already showing up as a leading sex expert thanks to your continued encouragement and cheerleading.
If you’re ready to start becoming the manager you want to be, to create the results you most want to create, and you’re willing to put in the time and effort to make your desire real, the here’s your chance!
If you’re finally willing to make that commitment to yourself and your dreams, Playing President is your powerful path to success.
But full disclosure… nothing will work for you if you do nothing.
If I give 100% and you give 20%, you’ll only get 20% results. You have to do the work. And if you’re not willing to, you’ll be wasting both your time and mine.
However, if you’re committed to joining forces with me, you’ll be amazed with the results you get. You’ll be looking at your work from a whole new perspective of “I’ve got this, no problem”.
OK, how much is my investment?
Playing president may not be cheap, but it shows you how to get the results you desire.
It’s an investment in yourself that will pay you back for the rest of your life.
It’s a journey of a lifetime that frees you from the expectations of others and lets you become the most powerful version of you. You get to make the difference you were meant to make, and have a great time doing it. You regain the freedom to choose what’s right for YOU.
And when you think about it, you realize that when you get what you truly desire, the people you love will also get what they desire!
And when you weigh all that against the investment and what it will do for you and your future, then it’s an easy choice.
You can join me in Playing President for 3 payments of €697.
Before starting this program, I felt stuck. I wasn’t doing what I wanted, and despite my efforts, I wasn’t achieving the results I aspired to. Over time, I had lost the natural leadership that came so easily to me. It was replaced by overthinking, focusing too much on others, and an overwhelming flood of analysis. I worked hard but felt disconnected from my actions and unsure of how to move forward.
Now, after completing the program, I can confidently say, ‘I recognize myself again.’ I’ve rediscovered the freedom to make intentional choices and work with purpose. I’ve developed a mindset that aligns with my goals and equipped myself with the tools to clear the path ahead.
This freedom has made me far more effective—not only in achieving my professional goals but also in shaping and implementing the strategies to reach them.
The biggest change is my approach. Instead of simply working hard, I now lead with a personal vision that benefits both me and those around me. I feel in control and have a clearer picture of the results I want to achieve.
This transformation has extended beyond work—I’ve strengthened my relationships, earned my first promotion, and even find more joy in my hobbies.
This program wasn’t just about self-development—it was about truly finding myself again, in a lasting way. I now have the mindset and tools to steer my life in the direction I want, unlocking results and joy in the process.
So, let’s summarize:
When you join Playing president, you get 10 online 1-on-1 coaching sessions…
… that transform how you see yourself, others, and what’s possible for you in this world!
- Stepping into your desire
- Navigating through inner blocks
- Embracing your flavor of leadership
- Breaking through stubborn patterns
- Creating joy NOW
- Stepping into value and confidence
- Finding emotional empowerment
- Rewriting the story of what’s right for you
- Expanding your power beyond what you think is available
- Gaining relationship clarity
Plus you get
The replays of your sessions, so you can revisit them whenever you want.
Bonuses:
A personal handbook with your discoveries, the tools you used and the activities you chose to achieve your desire.
Accountability: an online platform where you find the homework we decided on during the session to create new results, and where you share the actions you have taken and the results you got.
That creates a solid structure for your transformation.
So now it’s time for you to make one of two choices…
You have choices, and each choice has consequences.
You could choose to do nothing. And as you already know, if you choose nothing, then nothing changes. You can keep trying to figure it out by yourself, and you’ll keep getting the results you’re getting.
BUT if you already know that you want to make a greater difference in people’s lives and have a great time doing it, then your choice is obvious: join forces with me inside Playing President and start your transformation to becoming the powerful and joyful manager you know you were meant to be.
Simply click the link below and let’s get started!
First, we explored what I would like to change, who I want to be, and what my true intrinsic values are.
Gradually, hidden desires emerged, and I realized that the role of the tough, indestructible manager was putting a lot of unhealthy pressure on me.
You showed me how it feels to be the Johan I really want to be, which made everything lighter.
Then you helped me find my blockages that prevent me from being who I want to be, understand why they are there, and how they hold me back.
By looking at myself from different perspectives, I could recognize and examine these blockages. This is a very special method that yields surprising results. It helped me enormously that you took the time to really see and experience all the blockages.
Finally, we worked on solutions to lift the blockages and truly become who I want to be. By feeling and experiencing who I want and can be, I took steps towards that version of myself. That special trick always gives a euphoric feeling.
The sessions made me aware of how my life can be more beautiful. I make more choices based on what I want and not how (I think) others want it. That makes me much happier.
And actually, nothing bad happens when I choose this way 😊
FAQ
Do you have a question that needs to be answered before joining Playing President?
This sounds overwhelming, how much time will this program take to implement?
If this program sounds like a lot, it might just be because you feel overwhelmed and you’re trying to imagine how you’ll add this program to your to-do list.
Playing President is the antidote to overwhelm. It’s designed to give you focus and clarity on your vision. It will help you align your actions so you can work toward the big picture of where you are going.
Also, you get to keep the tools forever.
So, if you commit a few hours a week you can begin to see a whole new level of results and joy immediately.
I have too much on my plate already. I don’t have the mental capacity.
Then you need this the most. That is a very symptom that we’re going to address. We’re going to help you get your focus, energy and joy back!
When is the right time?
How long have you been putting off and using ‘now is not the time’ as a reason, or maybe even as an excuse? How much longer are you willing to put it off? The time may NEVER feel right. But when you get clear om what it is you want, and you get committed to making it happen, you MAKE the time. And that’s the choice you’re gonna have to make. Are you going to continue putting your dreams off to one day (which will never come), or are you going to make it happen? If not now, when?
When there’s nothing left in your cup, how can you give to any other people in your life? You can’t give what you don’t have. You can’t run a car on empty.
Are these tools complicated? What if I don’t understand them?
I guide you through the tools and you get the recording. You will practice the tools at least 3 times in the week after the session. They are easy to implement in your daily life. You don’t need any prior experience of embodiment or spiritual practices in order to benefit from this program.
I’m a successful, experienced manager. I know how to lead my team; is this program still for me?
You’re absolutely right, you do know how to lead! And together, we’re just going to enhance the results and your fulfillment. Unless you already get all the results you desire for you, for your organization and for your team in a way that feels amazing.
I am just beginning as a manager, is this program still for me?
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I don’t live in the Netherlands, can I still do the program?
Yes! You can do the program from anywhere in the world, as the sessions are online.
Have more questions?
Send an email to tineke@lovetowin.nl or use the form below, and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.
I’m very grateful for the powerful sessions that I’ve had with Tineke. For me, this has totally proven my belief that coaching can be so incredibly valuable – not only when you’re struggling, but also when you’re already in a good place!
The unique combination of tools that Tineke uses are very effective and helped me to align my mind, body & soul. This has given me so much energy!
Also, her strong ability to create a safe space, provide clear guidance and facilitate depth in the session allowed me to fully surrender and get to the core of what’s really going on inside.
This deeper understanding combined with the embodiment of all that arose made me feel very empowered. Each session gave me more clarity, confidence and energy.
I transformed from being in a good place to fully thriving! In my experience, allowing yourself the time & space – even (especially!) in a very busy life – will exponentially pay itself back in all aspects of your life.
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