For managers:
Is getting there all that matters — or will you lead the adventure in a way that makes the journey worth it?
A Tantric approach to leadership — because results mean nothing without joy.
Even powerful, capable, brilliant managers have blindspots.
The biggest blindspot I see in leaders everywhere — from boardrooms to city halls to hospitals — is this:
Believing you can either succeed… or be joyful.
That’s not ambition. That’s lowering the bar.
The truth is: when you choose joy, fulfillment, and aliveness, everything you touch transforms.
That’s the heart of my Tantric approach to leadership:
Guiding you back underneath the conditioning — where your power, your truth, and your deepest desires live.
So leadership stops being heavy… and starts becoming alive.
Because most managers are already doing everything they “should.”
Working hard. Meeting goals. Holding the team together.
But under the surface? They’re tired. Alone.
Disconnected from the spark that brought them here in the first place.
What if the problem isn’t you —
but the outdated stories about what leadership should look like?
What if leading your way — with clarity, connection, and joy —
is the most ambitious strategy of all?
Ways we can work together
Playing President
Discover the Tantric Approach to Leadership, Where Pursuing Your Deepest Desires Demands Your Truth—Creating Remarkable Results in the Office.
Joy as Strategy
Joy isn’t a luxury. It’s the most ambitious path, and the strategy that makes leadership come alive.
I’m Tineke van Veen
I’ve always been in love with two worlds.
The world of clarity — strategy, data, performance.
And the world of depth — vision, truth, and the raw intelligence of our emotions.
Most people pick one.
For me, there was never a choice. Both have always been alive in me.
So yes, I’ve led organizations to navigate through complexity — turning data into vision, weaving perspectives into strategy, and shaping systems where performance and people thrive.
And yes, I can also take you deep into your inner world — where your greatest power has been waiting, ready to come alive.
Because here’s what I learned:
– Dreams aren’t meant to be abandoned. I help leaders reclaim joy, desire, and bold vision.
– Truth isn’t one-sided. I weave perspectives together, so possibilities emerge.
– Emotions aren’t weakness. They’re data — the most honest signals we have.
My tantric training with Layla Martin gave me an extraordinary toolkit:
Practices that don’t just shift how you think, but how you feel, how you lead, how you live.
This is why my work feels different.
It’s not management as usual.
It’s the meeting point of science and soul.
Clarity and wonder.
Power and play.
Tineke’s sessions and coaching can only be described as transformative!
I started with a wish, a longing, something I’d wanted to achieve my whole life but had never been able to. It felt like standing in front of a huge wall I couldn’t break through or climb over. I felt powerless, frustrated—like it would never happen. Honestly, I just couldn’t see a way.
That all changed during the sessions. I call them breakthrough sessions. Tineke gave me an incredible sense of safety. She guided me through the obstacles, revealing things I’d never expected to see or feel.
She helps you get to your other side of the wall. Now, I feel stronger than ever. I enjoy life and the work I do. The powerlessness and frustration have transformed into knowing and deep trust.
What’s so powerful is that she doesn’t just guide you through different exercises—she also addresses your wish from all angles. She takes you to another world. I discovered my truth. Her sessions confirmed things I knew deep down but had always doubted. When doubts disappear, you stand firm in your knowing—and that’s so powerful.
It’s her method, her exercises, and Tineke as a coach. She’s an incredible woman who balances warmth and strength, unwavering trust in you, and exceptional leadership. Every time, at just the right moment, she brings clarity with her observations and insights. It’s almost “frightening” how spot-on she is.
For leaders ready to look beyond the surface, Tineke is the coach. Trust her. Look deeper. And you’ll discover the treasures within yourself. Just do it.
My goal was to figure out what I truly wanted so I could feel calm and confident enough to pursue it.
I realized I often rushed toward the end result and ignored the many steps in between.
Over ten sessions, I learned to focus more on how I feel in the present moment and what I actually need right now. I used to push through and ignore emotions.
These sessions helped me understand and accept my emotions and desires. I’ve learned that conflicting emotions can coexist and that it’s okay.
Through different exercises, I dared to explore my emotions, thoughts, and feelings more deeply, which left me feeling freer, more confident, and calmer.
My biggest challenge was the fear of hurting others or not meeting their expectations. This had led to a lack of self-confidence.
Now, I’m less likely to give in, and more likely to stand up for my feelings and opinions.
I felt a noticeable shift in my energy and confidence at work. The sessions made my transition to a leadership role far less daunting than I had feared.
By acting more decisively, communication with my team has become smoother, and I now feel energized and enjoy my work more.
I spent about four hours a week between sessions on this program, and it was absolutely worth it! Many of the exercises were easy to incorporate into daily life, and the impact of certain sessions—like the unicorn exercise—was brilliant.
What helped me most was your boundless enthusiasm. From the very first session, I felt like I was in a safe space. That safety allowed me to explore my emotions more deeply than I’d ever dared to before.
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Tineke van Veen | Love to Win
tineke@lovetowin.nl
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