I discovered leadership doesn’t have to be heavy.
It can be an adventure.
Now I guide managers to liberate themselves from weight — and lead with joy, truth, and adventure.
Hi, I’m Tineke!
The Adventure Behind My Work:
I saw what happens when people give up on their dreams.
When they mistake their own perspective for the whole truth.
When they blame, shame, or judge instead of taking responsibility.
I knew there had to be another way.
So I chose to make life an adventure — to find deeper truth and deeper joy.
Because the purpose of life isn’t to get to the end.
The purpose of life is to enjoy it.
These three things make my work so fulfilling — because they are my truth, once buried beneath the lies I believed.
They’re the treasures I had to go on an adventure to find.
And now, they’re the gifts I share with every leader I work with:
Joy isn’t a luxury. It’s the most ambitious path.
Targets without joy? That’s not ambition, that’s lowering the bar.
The most impactful move you can make is to go after what you deeply desire.
✨ Play your biggest game.
Truth isn’t rational. It lives underneath your armor.
Logic alone keeps you blind.
When you dare to feel what’s real — even the messy parts — possibility explodes open.
✨ Find the magic and wonder underneath frustration.
Self-responsibility isn’t weight. It’s freedom.
Blame and excuses keep you stuck.
Completely owning yourself unlocks clarity, self-trust, and real freedom.
✨ Become your own best ally.
We get one precious life. Why settle for less than joy?
A Tantric Approach to Leadership
I trained with Layla Martin in her tantric approach to sex, love, and relationships. And let’s be real: if Tantra can liberate the areas most tangled in shame — sex, love, and relationships — imagine what it can do for leadership.
Because leadership has its own shame game:
Don’t show weakness.
Don’t ever fail.
Get the result no matter the cost.
Yes, big results require work. There are choices to be made. But too often, sacrifice isn’t made from strength — it’s made from fear.
Here’s the secret: Tantra invites us into the inner world.
The place most leaders never even knew to go. It’s unknown territory. But once you step inside, you find it’s not empty. It’s alive.
Every emotion, every body sensation, every desire carries information. They are doorways. Maps. Pathways into the subconscious where the old patterns live — and where they can finally be changed.
This is where the mystical tools of Tantra work their magic.
Tools that have you experience yourself in completely new ways — alive, lit up, undeniably yourself. Breath, sound, movement, imagery. They open space in the body. They turn stuck energy into flow. They reveal truth underneath armor. And they show you that energy itself is not fixed. You can shift it — from fear into courage, from heaviness into joy, from doubt into clarity — simply by choosing it.
That’s when leadership stops being heavy. It becomes freedom. It becomes adventure. It becomes wonder.
If you’re ready to experience this kind of leadership, let’s talk.
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Tineke van Veen | Love to Win
tineke@lovetowin.nl
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