Playing President
A 10 week journey into the power you never knew you had!
We name your desire, diagnose two bottlenecks, and set two next moves.
A Tantric Approach to Leadership:
Where desire fuels strategy, truth cuts through illusion, and results rise from joy
A Tantric Approach to Leadership:
Where desire fuels strategy, truth cuts through illusion, and results rise from joy
You’ve already proven yourself. You’re ambitious, capable, brilliant.
But under the surface, the weight is real.
The workload. The decisions. The constant demands.
And somewhere along the way, joy leaked out.
Most managers believe they have to choose:
ambition or joy, results or fulfillment.
That belief is a trap.
And it’s what makes leadership feel heavier than it needs to.
You’ve seen it in others. Maybe you’ve felt it yourself.
Brilliant managers, carrying it all. From the outside, everything looks fine.
But inside, the spark that once lit them up feels dimmed.
They keep delivering, but the cost keeps rising.
Here’s the truth: sacrifice isn’t strength.
It’s a pattern.
And patterns can be changed.
There’s another way.
A way where desire fuels performance.
Where clarity replaces the noise.
Where leadership feels energizing, joyful and yes — even playful.
That’s what we do inside Playing President.
And it begins with five radical shifts…
Tineke’s sessions are transformative. Her method, her exercises, and Tineke as a coach — it’s almost frightening how spot-on she is. I feel stronger than ever. I enjoy life and the work I do. Powerlessness and frustration have transformed into knowing and deep trust.
Katrien Decavele – Owner Inspired Nation
You’ve seen it.
Brilliant managers, carrying it all.
From the outside, they look like they have it together:
Targets met. Teams intact. Results delivered.
But when you get close, you can feel it — the weight.
The joy they once had has gone quiet.
The spark that brought them here feels dimmed.
And here’s the blindspot almost none of them see:
They think this heaviness is leadership.
That sacrifice is proof of strength.
That results at any cost are the only way.
But that story is the trap.
And there’s another way.
A way where desire fuels performance.
Where truth cuts through resistance.
Where leadership feels alive, light, even playful.
That’s what we do inside Playing President.
And it takes five steps…
Step 1. Desire
They set the targets. They hit the numbers. They carry the weight of responsibility.
But ask them what they truly want?
Blank. They’ve stopped asking.
Somewhere along the way, responsibility swallowed desire.
The spark got replaced with duty.
And results became the only language of ambition.
But results without desire aren’t leadership.
They’re survival on repeat.
The shift?
To admit you want more than just the target.
To let desire back in as the fuel — so results come alive again.
Step 2. Honor
On the outside, they’re composed.
On the inside, they brace.
For conflict. For resistance. For the next demand.
They tell themselves: “This is leadership. Keep moving.”
But the body knows better.
Stress climbs. The mind races. The weight gets heavier.
Here’s the truth: emotions don’t vanish when ignored.
They turn into pressure, impatience, a restless search for escape.
The spell of honor is this:
Feel what’s real — and find the signal hiding inside it.
Honor the truth instead of overriding it.
When they do, leadership stops being a burden.
It starts to flow.
Step 3. Activate
They wear the mask of what a leader “should” look like.
The role that’s proven. The image that keeps them safe.
But real results don’t come from the mask.
They come from the self beneath it.
The part of them that’s natural, alive, and doesn’t need pretending.
Sometimes it’s the strategist.
Sometimes the athlete, the teacher, the lion, the unicorn.
Each challenge calls forth a different power.
And once they discover one they love — they return to it again and again, because it makes leadership light, effective, and fun.
The shift is asking:
Who in you can achieve this and have a great time doing it?
The answer is rarely logical. But once activated, it changes everything.
Step 4. Play
They think leadership means making hard decisions.
Choosing between two bad options. Carrying the fallout.
But most of the time, the hard choice isn’t the real choice.
The real choice is whether to stay locked in win-lose… or to open to win-win.
When leaders slow down enough to listen — really listen — to value every perspective, to build together — they discover something radical:
Hard decisions dissolve. Possibility multiplies.
And suddenly, leadership feels like play.
Not careless, but alive.
Not frivolous, but fertile.
Because seeing the game changes how you play it.
Step 5. Commit
They hit their targets. Always.
But when it comes to what they really want? They don’t believe it’s possible.
So they split themselves in two.
Half devoted to the role.
Half waiting for better times.
They never call it giving up.
But underneath, that’s what it is:
They’ve given up on themselves.
The shift?
To choose — again and again — to step back onto the path.
To commit not just to the target,
but to the life and leadership they actually want.
Because only when they commit fully does the path open.
This Is Playing President
Playing President is where managers stop surviving leadership,
and start playing the biggest game of their lives.
It’s not management as usual.
It’s the tantric approach to leadership.
The meeting point of science and soul.
Clarity and wonder.
Power and play.
Here, leaders don’t just get results.
They thrive in the process.
And their teams thrive with them.
Tineke’s sessions and coaching can only be described as transformative!
I started with a wish, something I’d wanted to achieve my whole life but had never been able to. It felt like standing in front of a huge wall I couldn’t break through or climb over. I felt powerless, frustrated—like it would never happen. Honestly, I just couldn’t see a way.
That all changed during the sessions. I call them breakthrough sessions. I literally felt the wall I needed to conquer, and Tineke gave me an incredible sense of safety. She guided me through the obstacles, revealing things I’d never expected to see or feel.
She helps you get to your other side of the wall. Now, I feel stronger than ever. I enjoy life and the work I do. The powerlessness and frustration have transformed into knowing and deep trust.
What’s so powerful is that she doesn’t just guide you through different exercises—she also addresses your wish from all angles. She takes you to another world. I discovered my truth. Her sessions confirmed things I knew deep down but had always doubted. When doubts disappear, you stand firm in your knowing—and that’s so powerful.
It’s her method, her exercises, and Tineke as a coach. She’s an incredible woman who balances warmth and strength, unwavering trust in you, and exceptional leadership. Every time, at just the right moment, she brings clarity with her observations and insights. It’s almost “frightening” how spot-on she is.
For leaders ready to look beyond the surface, Tineke is the coach. Trust her. Look deeper. And you’ll discover the treasures within yourself. Just do it.
What You’ll Experience Inside Playing President
10 private online sessions that change how you see yourself, others, and what’s possible, then turn that into action.
In each session we meet a specific kind of obstacle and move through it—so you gain freedom of choice and the power to do what you actually came here to do.
1) Discover Your True Vision — the compass that lights you up
Not a “respectable goal,” but the desire that makes your eyes shine.
You leave with: a living North Star, an inner compass that makes decisions effortless, the ability to feel what’s aligned (and what’s not), and the joy of strategizing from your achieved vision. The spark returns—and you can’t unsee it.
2) Navigate Your Inner World — turn obstacles into power
We stop fighting the “problem” and learn from it.
You leave with: a reliable way to remove hidden blocks, the skill to activate natural strengths on demand, and the surprising relief of feeling your heart back in your work. Challenges become illuminated steps.
3) Stand In Your Truth — lead authentically without the “shoulds”
You’re the one who supports everyone. Here, you get supported.
You leave with: felt validation (not just thoughts), a simple way to lead yourself through stuck spots, the ability to relax into your body and know you’re on the right path—so confidence stops being performative and starts being real.
4) Break Through Stubborn Patterns — create deep safety inside
Old loops don’t need more force; they need care.
You leave with: a proven path to unwind persistent patterns, a felt sense of safety in your body, and the practice of giving yourself exactly what you need—so you can move forward without abandoning yourself.
5) Activate Your Thriving State — become your own energy source
Joy isn’t dependent on circumstances.
You leave with: the ability to switch on a thriving state from within, a felt experience of being truly alive while you lead, and the ease that comes when momentum is powered by aliveness (not strain).
6) Step Into Confidence — own your worth and dare to want more
Confidence isn’t built—it’s remembered.
You leave with: embodied worthiness, permission to desire bigger (without apology), and a lit-up body that makes bold action feel natural.
7) Emotional Alchemy — transform discomfort into fuel
Fear, frustration, doubt aren’t roadblocks; they’re raw energy.
You leave with: a practical way to transmute intense feelings into clear action, more choice in heated moments, and the experience that the emotions you feared can actually empower you.
8) Recalibrate Your Power — break the spell of “not enough”
Old judgments and borrowed opinions stop running the show.
You leave with: resilient self-definition (even under scrutiny), a dependable formula for inner joy, and a quiet mind where the inner critic no longer sets the pace.
9) Unleash Your Hidden Power — welcome what once felt impossible
Capacity grows when resistance softens.
You leave with: access to strength you thought wasn’t “for you,” a body that can hold more without hardening, and the delight of doing what used to feel out of reach.
10) Transform Conflict Into Connection — see what’s really happening
This is where the inner work meets the real world.
You leave with: crystal clarity in relationship dynamics, the ability to surface what’s truly possible (and what’s needed), compassion that creates movement, and grounded next steps for even the “impossible” conversations.
By the end:
Who you’re being and what you’re doing align.
You take on bigger challenges with ease, and you trust you’ll hit your goals—and enjoy the process.
This is for you if...
- You’re on the right path but it’s too hard.
- You still believe there must be a better way, an easier way, a more comfortable way to achieve your ambitious goals.
- You are committed to achieving results and to showing up as the powerhouse you’ll discover yourself to be.
- You want to discover what you are truly capable of.
- You (want to) believe in magic, in possibility.
This is NOT for you if...
- You want a quick fix and don’t want to stop making excuses for mediocre results.
- You believe joy is only important for people who don’t achieve much.
- You are not willing to find the courage to look in the mirror.
- You no longer want to believe that it’s possible to create win-win solutions, if you no longer want to imagine what it could be like to achieve your goals and have a great time doing it.
Tineke, I am so honoured to have shared the last few months in your presence. It has been a phenomenal experience to have been coached by you.
I have taken away so many insights into my core power and how I can use this to show up as a leader in not only my field but of my life as a whole.
You have given me valuable tools to start building a business that is fully aligned with my vision, as well as supporting me to really truly connect to my own sexuality. My inner diva is fully present.
As a coach yourself you are compassionate, curious and open to listening to all I have to say, you present yourself in a non-judgmental way which allows for me to feel safe to open up and try new techniques and fully drop into new experiences.
I have no doubt that I am already showing up as a leading sex expert thanks to your continued encouragement and cheerleading.
If you’re ready to start becoming the manager you want to be, to create the results you most want to create, and you’re willing to put in the time and effort to make your desire real, the here’s your chance!
If you’re finally willing to make that commitment to yourself and your dreams, Playing President is your powerful path to success.
But full disclosure… nothing will work for you if you do nothing.
If I give 100% and you give 20%, you’ll only get 20% results. You have to do the work. And if you’re not willing to, you’ll be wasting both your time and mine.
However, if you’re committed to joining forces with me, you’ll be amazed with the results you get. You’ll be looking at your work from a whole new perspective of “I’ve got this, no problem”.
OK, how much is my investment?
Playing president may not be cheap, but it shows you how to get the results you desire.
It’s an investment in yourself that will pay you back for the rest of your life.
It’s a journey of a lifetime that frees you from the expectations of others and lets you become the most powerful version of you. You get to make the difference you were meant to make, and have a great time doing it. You regain the freedom to choose what’s right for YOU.
And when you think about it, you realize that when you get what you truly desire, the people you love will also get what they desire!
And when you weigh all that against the investment and what it will do for you and your future, then it’s an easy choice.
You can join me in Playing President for 3 payments of €697.
Pay in Full
One payment of- Save €94
- Includes the full 10-week journey
Payment Plan
Three payments of- Or pay upfront and save €94
- Same program, same support
Before starting this program, I felt stuck. I wasn’t doing what I wanted, and despite my efforts, I wasn’t achieving the results I aspired to. Over time, I had lost the natural leadership that came so easily to me. It was replaced by overthinking, focusing too much on others, and an overwhelming flood of analysis. I worked hard but felt disconnected from my actions and unsure of how to move forward.
Now, after completing the program, I can confidently say, ‘I recognize myself again.’ I’ve rediscovered the freedom to make intentional choices and work with purpose. I’ve developed a mindset that aligns with my goals and equipped myself with the tools to clear the path ahead.
This freedom has made me far more effective—not only in achieving my professional goals but also in shaping and implementing the strategies to reach them.
The biggest change is my approach. Instead of simply working hard, I now lead with a personal vision that benefits both me and those around me. I feel in control and have a clearer picture of the results I want to achieve.
This transformation has extended beyond work—I’ve strengthened my relationships, earned my first promotion, and even find more joy in my hobbies.
This program wasn’t just about self-development—it was about truly finding myself again, in a lasting way. I now have the mindset and tools to steer my life in the direction I want, unlocking results and joy in the process.
So, let’s summarize:
When you join Playing president, you get 10 online 1-on-1 coaching sessions…
… that transform how you see yourself, others, and what’s possible for you in this world!
Plus you get
The replays of your sessions, so you can revisit them whenever you want.
Bonuses:
A personal handbook with your discoveries, the tools you used and the activities you chose to achieve your desire.
Accountability: the homework we decided on during the sessions to create new results, and where you share the actions you have taken and the results you got.
That creates a solid structure for your transformation.
So now it’s time for you to make one of two choices…
You have choices, and each choice has consequences.
You could choose to do nothing. And as you already know, if you choose nothing, then nothing changes. You can keep trying to figure it out by yourself, and you’ll keep getting the results you’re getting.
BUT if you already know that you want to make a greater difference in people’s lives and have a great time doing it, then your choice is obvious: join forces with me inside Playing President and start your transformation to becoming the powerful and joyful manager you know you were meant to be.
Simply click the link below and let’s get started!
First, we explored what I would like to change, who I want to be, and what my true intrinsic values are.
Gradually, hidden desires emerged, and I realized that the role of the tough, indestructible manager was putting a lot of unhealthy pressure on me.
You showed me how it feels to be the Johan I really want to be, which made everything lighter.
Then you helped me find my blockages that prevent me from being who I want to be, understand why they are there, and how they hold me back.
By looking at myself from different perspectives, I could recognize and examine these blockages. This is a very special method that yields surprising results. It helped me enormously that you took the time to really see and experience all the blockages.
Finally, we worked on solutions to lift the blockages and truly become who I want to be. By feeling and experiencing who I want and can be, I took steps towards that version of myself. That special trick always gives a euphoric feeling.
The sessions made me aware of how my life can be more beautiful. I make more choices based on what I want and not how (I think) others want it. That makes me much happier.
And actually, nothing bad happens when I choose this way 😊
FAQ
Do you have a question that needs to be answered before joining Playing President?
This sounds overwhelming, how much time will this program take to implement?
If this program sounds like a lot, it might just be because you feel overwhelmed and you’re trying to imagine how you’ll add this program to your to-do list.
Playing President is the antidote to overwhelm. It’s designed to give you focus and clarity on your vision. It will help you align your actions so you can work toward the big picture of where you are going.
Also, you get to keep the tools forever.
So, if you commit a few hours a week you can begin to see a whole new level of results and joy immediately.
I have too much on my plate already. I don’t have the mental capacity.
Then you need this the most. That is a very symptom that we’re going to address. We’re going to help you get your focus, energy and joy back!
When is the right time?
How long have you been putting off and using ‘now is not the time’ as a reason, or maybe even as an excuse? How much longer are you willing to put it off? The time may NEVER feel right. But when you get clear om what it is you want, and you get committed to making it happen, you MAKE the time. And that’s the choice you’re gonna have to make. Are you going to continue putting your dreams off to one day (which will never come), or are you going to make it happen? If not now, when?
When there’s nothing left in your cup, how can you give to any other people in your life? You can’t give what you don’t have. You can’t run a car on empty.
Are these tools complicated? What if I don’t understand them?
I guide you through the tools and you get the recording. You will practice the tools at least 3 times in the week after the session. They are easy to implement in your daily life. You don’t need any prior experience of embodiment or spiritual practices in order to benefit from this program.
I’m a successful, experienced manager. I know how to lead my team; is this program still for me?
You’re absolutely right, you do know how to lead! And together, we’re just going to enhance the results and your fulfillment. Unless you already get all the results you desire for you, for your organization and for your team in a way that feels amazing.
I am just beginning as a manager, is this program still for me?
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I don’t live in the Netherlands, can I still do the program?
Yes! You can do the program from anywhere in the world, as the sessions are online.
Have more questions?
Send an email to tineke@lovetowin.nl or use the form below, and I’ll get back to you as soon as possible.
I’m very grateful for the powerful sessions that I’ve had with Tineke. For me, this has totally proven my belief that coaching can be so incredibly valuable – not only when you’re struggling, but also when you’re already in a good place!
The unique combination of tools that Tineke uses are very effective and helped me to align my mind, body & soul. This has given me so much energy!
Also, her strong ability to create a safe space, provide clear guidance and facilitate depth in the session allowed me to fully surrender and get to the core of what’s really going on inside.
This deeper understanding combined with the embodiment of all that arose made me feel very empowered. Each session gave me more clarity, confidence and energy.
I transformed from being in a good place to fully thriving! In my experience, allowing yourself the time & space – even (especially!) in a very busy life – will exponentially pay itself back in all aspects of your life.
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